Wednesday, 1 October 2008

A fake girl tryin to be real.

"How To Notice When Someone Has A Fake Smile"
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I believe that there are many forms of smiling. All of them genuine but not all meaning the same thing.These two examples given here are genuine. The way I see it is that the smile towards the flower lady was meant to enforce, through eye contact, that she is friendly and happy with the purchase and verbal exchange. She's telling the other person, "See my eyes? they are telling you that I am sincere and friendly to you". It's a way to tell someone you aren't very familiar with, or not at all, that you are a good person and enjoyed their company.
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When smiling to her friend it is already known that they are friends. So the communication of that fact through her eyes are not as important and more laid back. It doesn't necessarily mean that person is not important to her, it's just that their friendship has already been established. Her smile was mostly likely not "acting" but rather showing the lack of need to re-enforce herself as being friendly and having a good time. They are, after all, friends.
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It's a known fact that much of our communication is carried through body language and more specifically our eye contact, or lack of it. I think these researchers are trying to find a way to tell if someone is actually smiling because they are happy and genuine or throwing around smiles and not meaning to be friendly (just "acting"). Communication is so complex that these researchers seems to be trying to use physical science when psychological science would be more adapt at figuring this out.
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You don't think i don see through u,my girl friends?
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That fake smile, That fake laugh, That fake "friendship",That fake words,That fake concern, That fake innocent face,That fake story, That fake life.
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Well guess what?
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Don't think u r fooling anyone.
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1day you r going to fall so far that you may never get up.
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you’ll can get to know the person who stand in front of you
you’ll find the key that gets you deeply incide me
you’ll undestand why i’m writting this...

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